Dieting during Coronavirus: How it could be damaging your relationship with food

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The majority of 2020 was spent behind closed doors. We’re living the WFH life and daily step counts have been slashed from 10,000 to 100. There’s been nothing to do but snack and drink copious amounts of sauvignon blanc. It’s no surprise a lot of us have gained the Quarantine 15 – a phrase that began on social media as a joke but soon became an aggressive term used by news outlets.

Social media pressured us to use 2020 to work on ourselves and our bodies. Anyone who didn’t take this approach felt unnecessarily ashamed. Despite Joe Wick’s and Chloe Ting’s best efforts, the motivation to stay fit was too much to think about. The pressure to obtain the ‘perfect’ body whilst staying home was most definitely overwhelming and even triggered some people’s disordered eating. 

Emily Cox is one out of 1,398,000 in the UK with Binge Eating Disorder. Understandably, she finds language around weight loss and weight gain uncomfortable:

“I try to steer clear of anything that could be majorly triggering, like articles on lockdown obesity, because the guilt is overwhelming.”

The UK lockdowns have really fed into diet culture –– the idea somebody is only desirable, happy and attractive if they’re slim. A survey by King’s College London and Ipsos MORI suggested half the UK’s population have gained weight since March. In response to people having to buy bigger jeans, magazine and news sites have been inundated with ‘How To Lose Lockdown Weight’ articles. Emily added, “Lockdown has really caused me to zero in on what I’m eating, especially with the media focusing on the overarching themes of weight gain.” 

Emily now 27, started her first diet at just 12-years-old and attended Slimming World meetings with her mum. From a very young age the idea of good and bad foods was drummed into her, “It gave me a robot food complex because Slimming World refers to bad food as SYNS.”

Picture of Emily Cox (courtesy of Emily Cox)

Slimming World also calls some foods free. On their website they define this as: “You can eat it in unlimited quantities (no weighing or measuring needed!) to satisfy your appetite.”  Foods on this list include pasta, potatoes and general fruit and veg. In reflection of this Emily continued; “My portion control is completely destroyed because I sat in these SW meetings as a kid.” Emily suggested her eating disorder was brought on by the various diets she’s tried over the years, including Slimming World –– a diet she’s joined on and off around 6 times.

“I know some people lost incredible amounts of weight on it and it’s worked really well for them,” added Emily. Different diets work for different people. But you need to know how to incorporate them into your life safely. Emily admitted, “The likelihood is that these people also had the ability to practice portion control and be able to look after themselves.” 

This year not even the news was safe from the themes of weight loss. In late July, Boris Johnson launched a obesity strategy, asking the British public to lose 5lbs each to reduce strain on the NHS. At a time when we were being reintroduced into a life outside of lockdown, the UK Government were starting to guilt-trip the nation about their weight-gain. “It can’t be healthy to throw another blanket of guilt over everyone in such an unprecedented time. I think the government’s decision to begin a weight loss campaign during a pandemic was in particularly bad taste,” says Emily. 

(Ironically, Eat Out To Help Out was announced early July to begin on the 3rd August.)

Also in the obesity strategy, there were talks of forcing restaurants into calorie labelling their menus. It received a lot of criticism from the public. Some pointed out this could cause people with disordered eating issues to spiral. Lana El Assaad finds calorie counting triggering, stemming from taking part in a few crash diets: “I never realised they were toxic. I think in my mind I thought, Oh, it will help me lose a little bit of weight. Then it developed into ‘I’m not allowed to eat more than this amount’ and that’s where my obsession with calories began.”

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Lana uses her Instagram, @dietculturerebel , to spread word about the toxicness of crash diets and diet culture as a whole. The 18-year-old, who is diagnosed with anorexia, also felt the lockdowns dug up her anxieties over food and weight. “It caused such a huge fear of weight gain and I almost relapsed quite badly. Although thankfully, I used that almost relapse as an opportunity to take a step back, understand my triggers and regain a healthy relationship with food and myself.” 

That same survey by King’s College discovered 48% of people found lockdown made them more anxious and depressed than normal. Food restrictions or binge eating could seem like an easy coping mechanism for a pandemic that cannot be directly controlled.

Naturopath and specialist in healthy living Glenys Collings says: “Those with eating disorders will claim the one thing in their life they can control is what they eat. But I would like to turn it around the other way; you can control what you eat. So let’s give ourselves what our bodies need and what they deserve. What we feed ourselves also has a massive effect on our mental health.”

Lockdown statistics graph created by Tara Davies – Source: ‘Getting used to life under lockdown? Coronavirus in the UK’
Study by Kings’s College London and Ipsos MORI

Diet culture completely surrounds us. From celebrities advertising weight loss products on Instagram to the UK Government telling the whole country to knock off some pounds. Glenys Collings adds, “Some people will say 80% of their brain space is taken up with thinking about body image and the moods and feelings associated with it.” Therefore it can only be anticipated that the average Brit will attempt three diets a year, totalling to 189 failed diets in a lifetime.

Collings says, “These diets are not sustainable. People tend to rebound. So they have this whole lifetime cycle of weight gain, weight loss, weight gain, weight loss. And every time they gain weight, it’s more difficult to lose.” 

40% of people in the UK made ‘to lose weight’ their New Year’s Resolution for 2020. Whilst the idea of weight loss isn’t wholly bad, New Year diets tend to be a restrictive quick-fix that cannot be sustained for more than the whole of January.

Wanting to shed a few pounds doesn’t make you a victim of diet culture but, living an exhaustive lifestyle because of that desire does. Whilst endless studies prove a calorie deficit is the key to weight loss, you shouldn’t be cutting calories down to anything near 1000 or less. An extreme deficit and cutting out favourite foods only encourages binges, setting back weight loss progress –– says Rosie Breen. 

Picture of @WeightLossWithRosie (courtesy of Rosie Breen)

Rosie’s most known for being the face behind TikTok, Instagram and Youtube accounts @WeightLossWithRosie. She posts low cal recipes and content about how she sustainably lost weight. In regard to dieting she said, “When I started my journey, there was another girl doing it with me. Whenever we’d go out for dinner, she would bring her weighing scales with her to weigh her rice or curry.” Rosie added, “She was counting her calories for every spritz of oil, every gram of salt and pepper, spices, everything. And I just thought how would you sustain that for the rest of your life?”

Intuitive eating is being pushed by many anti-dieting dietitians across Instagram and Twitter. Intuitive eating just means you listen to your body, eating what and when it tells you. Despite weight loss needing a calorie deficit, Rosie is a strong believer in intuitive eating. She emphasises it’s something which has stopped her from rebounding in her nearly two year weight loss journey.

Rosie’s low cal carbonara (courtesy of Rosie Breen)

“I had three Options hot chocolates yesterday and only added one to My Fitness Pal. That’s like 80 calories I’ve not accounted for. It won’t even set me back anything. But let’s say it has set me back half a pound Monday to Monday. I’m still living a sustainable life instead of restricting. Once I achieve my weight loss goal, I know I can go back to ‘normal’ eating habits and not regain it back like other people will. This is because I am still eating what I want.”

In one of Rosie’s recent YouTube videos, looking back on her pre-weight loss body, she tells her viewers: “If I was that size for ever, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it. It doesn’t mean I wasn’t beautiful. I would’ve asked me for my number!” 

This time of the year, we’re surrounded by New Year, New Me weight loss products and programmes. Just because you’re seeing everyone else embark on a new diet, it doesn’t mean you have to. For those adamant to kick start their weight loss journey in 2021, eat good and well and don’t fall victim to bad unsustainable habits.

Help and Support: Disordered Eating

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If you’re struggling with disordered eating/an eating disorder or feel you may relapse, here’s a list of organisations and resources to help you get back on your feet. (UK)

Charities and Care

BEAT

Beat is the UK’s leading eating disorder charity and have been running since 1989.

They offer services to help you support yourself and help support somebody else.

Beat also run numerous localised services.

You can find all information on Beat’s different types of support and resources here.

Their helpline is open all year round –  9am–8pm during the week, and 4pm–8pm on weekends and bank holidays.

Helpline: 0808 801 0677

Studentline: 0808 801 0811 

Youthline: 0808 801 0711 

ABC (Anorexia and Bulimia Care)

Anorexia and Bulimia Care provide care, emotional support and practical guidance for anyone affected by eating disorders and eating distress.

Their helpline is open Wednesdays, Thursdays and Fridays, 9am – 1pm and 2pm – 5pm

Helpline: 03000 11 12 13

You can also book a Skype call support appointment here. (Wednesday, Thursday and Fridays 2-4pm)

You can also contact them via email at support@anorexiabulimiacare.org.uk or familyandfriends@anorexiabulimiacare.org.uk 

NHS

If you suspect you may have an eating disorder you can read the NHS webpage on EDs here.

To find eating disorder help services near you, you can use this little search engine here.

If you believe you have an eating disorder, please speak to your GP.

Helpful Instagram Pages

Unfollow Instagram accounts that reinforce diet culture or make you feel bad about yourself and replace them with positive ones.

New accounts might help you to feel happier and less likely to fall (back) into disordered eating habits.

Here’s a couple of my favourites:

DIET CULTURE REBEL

@DietCultureRebel is an Instagram page set up by one of my interviewees, Lana El Assaad.

Lana uses her Instagram profile to campaign against diet culture, help her to practice healthy eating habits and avoid relapsing.

Read, in her words, why she began @DietCultureRebel:

“I’ve suffered from an eating disorder from a young age. It’s something that’s hit quite hard. I grew up around quite toxic body image experiences because I did gymnastics. Then I saw how glorified diet culture was online, especially when I went into my teenage years. It was very, very triggering for me and then I realised it also was for other people around me, even people who had never suffered from eating disorders. I decided I wanted to share my experience so people can understand how toxic dieting culture can be and how it’s not healthy.”

@DietCultureRebel on Instagram

ANTI DIET RIOT CLUB

@AntiDietRiotClub is an Instagram page dedicated to ‘rebelling against diet culture’ and promoting body positivity.

The account was created by Becky Young who decided one January she wasn’t going to conform to diet culture and try to lose weight.

The Instagram has since reached a following of 108K and often host meet ups.

Anti Diet Riot Club have very recently launched a community to help people unlearn diet culture rules.

Millie’s Experience With The 5:2 Diet

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When Millie Coaker was 16, both her and her dad both took up the 5:2 diet as a way to lose weight. The now-21-year-old described the diet as,  “A calorie deficit but it’s just twice weekly rather than everyday.  Two days a week you fast, eating around 500 calories.” 

5:2 is a type of intermittent fasting diet and was popularised by TV journalist Michael Mosely. The diet is liked by many as it gives you the freedom to eat without strict calorie restrictions for the most part of each week. Millie explained, “It’s more of a lifestyle change rather than a diet.”

She followed the diet for nearly two years, fasting only two days a week for the first four months;

“As time went on, I was seeing it was really working and then I just completely stopped eating. I was doing it every day and I would tell my parents I had eaten or I was just on a fast day. At the height of it, I was only eating 600 calories a day,” She said.

After months of keeping to the diet, Millie’s dad became considerably underweight and started to lose not just fat but muscle too. She recalled, “My mum sat us down and said: Look, you’re both taking this too far. But because, at the beginning, my parents and everyone else kept complimenting my weight loss, I thought: Oh, I’m going to keep going because this is having such a positive effect.

One day Millie was pulled aside by her college teacher, who told her she hadn’t seen her eat lunch for a year. Millie added, “She whipped out a McDonalds burger, saying she had bought me some lunch and that I needed to eat. But I just couldn’t. I felt physically sick just smelling the burger. I told her I was fine and she said you don’t look fine.”

The chat with her teacher prompted Millie to begin reading up on disordered eating; “Although it didn’t properly go into my head that I had an eating disorder because I wasn’t eating properly –– I did think, okay, what I’m doing is incredibly unhealthy. I’ve lost too much weight too quickly.” 

When Millie reflected on her experience with extreme dieting she said, “I think I was justifying it because I was also going to the gym, four days a week. I thought this was a healthy lifestyle. I was exercising and I wasn’t eating bad food.” When Millie did eat, it wouldn’t be much more than one low-calorie ready meal a day: “People started telling me it was great I was going to the gym but I also needed to eat balanced meals and allow myself more than I was currently giving myself. And half the time I didn’t even enjoy the microwave meals I was actually eating.”

Our Diet Culture spoke to naturopath Glenys Collings about the 5:2 diet and those who end up taking it to the extremes. She said, “There’s a lot of research and evidence to support intermittent fasting. However, I don’t personally do that and I don’t personally recommend it.”

There’s no denying that many people have 5:2 success stories and don’t fall into habits of disordered eating. However, the likeliness is that these people have the ability to look after themselves properly whilst doing it.Bearing this in mind, Collings added, “It does work for some people, but then it so much depends on people’s mental health. Like alcohol –– you can have a glass of wine or a few drinks now and again, and not everybody will become an alcoholic. Everybody is different.”

If you’re somebody who finds intermittent fasting is right for you, Collings recommends fasting overnight. She says, “Have your evening meal as early as possible, say six o’clock. Then if you don’t have your breakfast till eight o’clock, that’s 14 hours of fasting. I personally believe that’s a healthy way to do it and it’s achievable.”

Glenys Collings’s top tip for intermittent fasters is: “It’s really important you eat a protein based meal after fasting. This is because your blood sugar’s down and your body’s saying: I want some food to make me feel better. The protein can stop you from overeating.”

This is because protein reduces the level of gherkin, your hunger hormone, as well as boosting the hormone that makes you feel full. Protein also ‘feeds’ your muscles therefore, when losing weight, can help preserve muscle mass whilst still losing fat.

Different lifestyle changes for weight loss work for different people. It’s extremely important to take care of your body and not get too hung up on trying to speed up your weight loss. If you are wondering whether the 5:2 diet is right for you, you can read the NHS’s analysis on it here.